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Welcome to the Re-Wild Yourself Blog.

My name is Cira J. N., and I am a Kenyan woman residing in Nairobi. The purpose of this blog is to share the lessons and experiences I have found most impactful on my journey through life. Many are first-hand experiences while some of the stories will feature others in my life with remarkable nuggets to share.

I hope the blog is insightful, helpful and at the very least offers an interesting perspective for consideration.


I feel like an imposter in my own life. Unqualified. Like a fraud clinging on to the ‘fake it till you make it’ trope.  For now, all I want is to sink into my own abyss. To remain checked out and aloof. It’ll all work out in the end. 
What Does Sexual Liberation Mean to You?
For a very long time, I used to conflate being sexually liberated with having many sexual partners. And while promiscuity can be a part of Sexual Liberation, it isn't the only path to it. At the start of my journey, I was actively promiscuous and I did believe that at …
Flattery won’t always get you everywhere… -Sweet Nothings.
Wrong Time
Though bittersweet, I prefer to remember us as we are now. Before resentment and impatience turn this into something ugly and painful.
Did I feel betrayed? You bet your ass I did. But who had forsaken me first? Had it been them? Or had I deceived myself first and carried on the lie to avoid facing my choices and what they meant?